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5 Ways to Fall in Love With Your Wife Again

Fall in love with wife again

Loving your wife without being “in love” with her doesn’t have to be the permanent state of your marriage.

Feeling like your marriage has lost its excitement over the years is nothing to be too worried about — it happens to every marriage. But excitement is something that can be put back into a relationship, no matter how old it is.

If you want to grow closer to your wife and fall in love with her all over again, but don’t know where to start, take a look at the tips below.

Filling a stale marriage with love and passion can’t be done with any quick fixes — it’ll take plenty of time and effort. If you’re willing to do the work, you’ll be looking at your wife the same way you looked at her on your wedding day in no time.

1. Give her your full attention

Fall in love with wife again

When you’ve lived with your wife for a while, time spent with her loses its richness. An evening spent with her becomes just another night, and waking up with her by your side probably doesn’t give you the same butterfly feeling it did when you were first married.

But why is that?

It might be because you aren’t paying enough attention to all the amazing things your wife does. If you ever find yourself concentrating on your wife’s flaws, just think about all the little things she does that make her special.

And when you spend time with her, eating dinner, watching TV, or sitting in the backyard, get rid of any distractions so that you can give her your full attention. Really live in the moment with her. Talk, play a game, or just enjoy each other’s company.

It’s hard to completely get away from distractions when we always have access to phones, TVs, laptops, and smart watches. But putting work, friends, and social media aside to focus solely on your wife will give you the opportunity to be reminded of why you fell in love with her in the first place.

2. Make her feel special

Fall in love with wife again

One of the main reasons why men fall out of love with their wives is because they take their wives for granted. After being married for a while, and living every day in a set routine, it’s easy to get into the habit of ignoring all the amazing things your relationship has to offer.

Instead of thinking about your life with your wife as a routine, be intentional about how you act around and think about your wife. Focus on the things that are great about your marriage and less about its problems.

One amazing way to stop taking your wife for granted is to get back into the headspace you had when you first fell in love with her. What were all the little things about her that you adored? What are all the new things about her that make you feel lucky to have her as a wife?

Besides that, think back to all the ways you used to show your wife how much you loved her. What were all those little gestures you used to do to put a smile on her face?

If you incorporate little loving gestures into your daily life, you’ll start thinking about your wife the way you did when you were first married. Get her flowers and chocolates, do her chores for her, brush her hair, or cook her favorite meal.

An average, boring day can become romantic and exciting with a simple gesture of kindness and love. And when you take the time to notice all the amazing things about your wife, it’ll be impossible not to fall in love with her again.

3. Try something new together 

Fall in love with wife again

It’s a well-known fact that excitement in a relationship leads to a happy couple. Excitement creates endorphins and serotonin, two hormones that stabilize our mood and help us feel good.

When those hormones aren’t released for a while, life feels dull. As a result, relationships feel dull, too.

Putting excitement back into your marriage is the key to releasing those happy hormones in your body and will remind you of how in love you really are with your wife.

To make your marriage exciting again, try something new! Go on a trip to a place you’ve never been or start a new hobby together. Do something you’ve never done before and you’ll both feel a rush of excitement.

When the day is over, you’ll be refreshed and more in love than you were the day before.

4. Reconsider your routines

Fall in love with wife again

If your marriage has been feeling flat, or if there’s any tension between you and your wife, it may be due to the fact that your routine simply isn’t working anymore.

The best way to revamp your routine is to ask your wife questions and to be honest with each other.

Consider if there are things your wife does that get on your nerves. If there are, discuss them with her and see if the problem can be resolved.

But don’t stop there. Ask her what you can do differently to make her happier.

A fresh perspective and a new routine will make your dull marriage into something new. When you work together with your wife to problem-solve, the stress that built up in your marriage will gradually go away.

With better communication, you and your wife can be closer than ever before.

5. Find a new hobby

Fall in Love Again

It might sound counterintuitive but spending all your time with your wife may hurt your relationship more than help it.

A major problem in long marriages is that both members lose their individuality. Instead of being their own person, they’re just one half of a whole. This makes marriages feel repetitive, tiring, and boring!

It gets even worse when children come along.

Individuality in a marriage is key to feeling fulfilled. When you let go of all the things that define you, life won’t feel as interesting. Not only that, but your wife may find you less appealing, too.

That’s why you should always remember to set aside time for yourself and your other relationships. Take a class, go to the gym, or even go on a day or weekend trip — without your wife. Go with a friend, or by yourself. If you are able to build up your skills and work on yourself, you’ll have a deeper understanding of the world around you and your place in it.

You’ll also have plenty of new things to talk to your wife about that she hasn’t heard a thousand times.

If you no longer feel like you’re in love with your wife, don’t worry! Every member of every couple has felt like that at some point in their relationship. Some treat it like the end of the road with no way back. Others — those with the better outlook — know that it’s just a speed bump!

With a bit of time and effort, your relationship can feel like it did when it was just starting out. That freshness and excitement you used to feel doesn’t have to be a thing of the past. Just take some pointers from the tips above and get to work!

But remember, communication is the foundation of a strong relationship. Marriages can’t last unless both people give it their all.

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